Saturday, July 26, 2014

Bra Sizing

Bra sizing, honestly, I can’t think of anything more frustrating or complicated. As someone who has been wearing bras since around middle school, I can finally say I somewhat have a better grasp on what actual bra size I am, something I thought I’d never be able to say. Although this is just a basic guide to finding your right size, it is a great starting point because most bra wearers are wearing the wrong size bra. Once you become more comfortable with sizing and finding a brand you enjoy, you can also explore sister-sizing and become more familiar with what sizes you are in certain brands.

Bulges, puckering, loose straps, too tight straps, back pain, and overflow are all things most bra wearers have been familiar with, all symptoms of an ill fitting bra. Whether it be too big or too small, an ill fitting bra can cause real pain, not limited to headaches, back pain, chest pain, shoulder pain, etc. An ill fitting bra can not only cause physical pain, but can lead to clothes not fitting properly, and an overwhelming feeling of stress every time you have to put a bra on. While not all bra wearers experience such trials and tribulations when it comes to finding your proper bra size, it is not always a walk in the park. Some people resort to ditching underwire bras completely, opting for bralettes, sports bras, or going au natural, all of which are great options, if they work for you, but not everyone is as comfortable sticking to those options.

Now to the important part: how to size yourself and start your journey towards finding the proper fitting bra. The actual sizing part is fairly simple, all you will need is a measuring tape and about 5 minutes of your time. Following this simple guide by Playtex:

Step 1: Measure your band size, do this by wrapping the tape measure above your bust, under your under arm. Round up to the nearest even number.
Step 2: Now find the fullest part of your bust and wrap the tape measure around this part, rounding up if it falls in between 2 numbers.
Step 3: Subtract the measurement you found in step 1, from the measurement you found in step 2, this will help you determine your cup size.
Example:
Step 1: 34”
Step 2: 38”
Step 3: 38-34=4, 4” difference is approx. a D, therefore you would be a 34D.




It’s important to note that although this measurement is a good starting point, not all bras are made the same and depending on the brand and style, you may have to play a little with the band and cup size, but this measurement is a great starting point!
Bra sizes can change with weight gain, loss, age, pregnancy, etc so be sure to measure yourself at least every 6 months so you can have the most accurate bra size. Now that you have been given all this knowledge, go out there and find some awesome bras in the right size, and promptly throw out those old, improper fitting bras! Good Luck!

Some helpful sites: 
http://www.playtexfits.com/fit/find-your-bra-size/#
http://www.herroom.com/bra-fitting-advice,901,30.html

Tuesday, July 15, 2014

Photos of Live! Vintage on the Plaza Event

Hey all! This last weekend, we had our very first live model fashion show benefiting the YWCA. It was a success! We hung out during the Plaza Walk with great food from NANI  and our models showed off their stuff to everyone who came to check it out! We were able to raise money to support the YWCA (see our last post to learn more on the organization) all while having a great time. And congratulations to our raffle winners! Those who entered were asked to guess how many small pairs of undies could fit in a H-cup bra. The result was 26 for those of you who were wondering. Anyway, our lovely photographer for the evening, Mason Morrow, got some *great* shots and we wanted to share some of them with you!














































Models: Nayelly Salinas, Alaina Hunt, Marin Harper, Carmen Deveraux, Zitta John, Cat Carter, and Becca Johnson

Hair: Allison Henrion

Makeup: Carmen Deveraux

Photos: Mason Morrow

Food/Appetizers: Nani, Colin Stringer & Andon Whitehorn

YWCA Ambassador: Staley Stidham

Managing Coordinator: Ashley Davenport



Wednesday, July 9, 2014

YWCA Fashion Show


As many of you may know, this weekend, July 11th, the Ruff Life is hosting a fashion which will be benefiting the YWCA, so what a great opportunity to share some facts about the YWCA and their importance in our community. Established in 1858, the YWCA is not only the largest, but the oldest multicultural women’s organization in the world. Their mission is to not only empower women, but to eliminate racism. The YWCA is important to our community, not only because they provide a safe haven for women and girls who come to them in times of crisis, but because the YWCA also advocates for women’s and civil rights in Congress. With over 25 million members spread over 106 countries, the YWCA certainly has the power and the means to reach out to women in many communities.
      The YWCA offers job training, counseling, child-care, health and fitness services. One thing is for certain, no matter what women come for, they leave with a set of new skills, and a stronger self.
       The YWCA is the only certified center to provide services and programs to victims of domestic violence, stalking and sexual assault. Their domestic violence services include: housing victims of sexual assault and domestic abuse, which includes providing shelter, legal services, transportation, medical care and child care for up to two months. Currently, the YWCA is the center that provides shelter for battered women and children in Oklahoma County. They also offer transitional housing, crisis services, Domestic Violence Victim Assistance Program (DVVAP), counseling and community groups, a children’s counseling program, and Prevention Education and Economic Empowerment Program (EEP).
            Sexual assault services include providing support for victims of sexual assault, hospital advocacy and a Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner (SANE).  The YWCA has a 24 hour rape crisis hotline, and have hospital advocates that are on call 24 hours a day to provide emotional support, advocacy and counseling. These services are offered at hospitals, police stations, and in the legal system.
        The YWCA is so important because every year upwards of 10 million children are exposed to domestic violence at home, between 30%-60% of children in households with domestic abuse are directly abused, thus causing problems with youth as they grow up, causing them to be more likely to follow these patterns of abuse, be at a higher risk of death, and face more hurdles with succeeding in life and school. One of the reasons women in domestic abuse and sexual assault situations stay in relationships with their abuser is because they lack the financial independence and means to escape the situation. The YWCA offers help and support to these women and children by helping them get back on their feet through job training, counseling and support. Without the help of the YWCA and their services many women would be stuck in these less than ideal situations and continue to put not only themselves, but their children at risk.

            One question many people have is, ‘how can I help?” the YWCA accepts donations online, through several options: a one time gift, making a pledge to monthly donations, or making a gift in honor of someone special, all of these options are available online on their website. You can also mail your gift to their OKC location:
YWCA Oklahoma City
2460 NW 39th Street
Oklahoma City, OK 73112
You can also donate stocks or other securities to the YWCA, or use planned giving to
Include the YWCA in your will as a beneficiary and more complex trust arrangements.

Donation information:

or contact Nicole Wright, Director of Development
405-948-1770 


To visit or use YWCA services, Oklahoma has 3 locations which are:
YWCA Enid                             

2460 NW 39th St 
Oklahoma City , OK 73112-8956
Phone:405 948-1770
Fax: 405-943-7177
URL: www.ywcaokc.org



YWCA Oklahoma City
525 S Quincy St 
Enid , OK 73701-5456
Phone:580 234-7581
Fax: 580-234-1284
URL: www.ywcaenid.com



YWCA Tulsa
1910 S Lewis Ave Ste 200 
Tulsa , OK 74104-5724
Phone:918 587-2100
Fax: 918-587-0277
URL: www.ywcatulsa.org

The Oklahoma 24 hour Domestic Violence Hotline is: 405-917-9922
The Oklahoma 24 hour Sexual Assault Hotline is: 405-943-7273

All information in this blog post was found on the YWCA OKC website: http://www.ywcaokc.org

Saturday, July 5, 2014

LIVE! Vintage on the Plaza

Join us at the Ruff Life for free hors d'oeuvres, drinks, and fun! We are having a live model vintage fashion show to benefit the YWCA. 15% of all proceeds go to YWCA. There will also be a raffle with prizes from the shop! Can't wait to see you there! Did we mention there is no admission fee? Yep, it's free! So come and go as you please! 7pm- 10pm July 11th!