Saturday, December 21, 2013

Evolution of the Modern Bra

With over 30 different styles to choose from, an array of manufacturers, colors, and fabrics, the bra has become an essential, almost unquestionable element of getting dressed everyday for women all over the world. Unknown to most, however, is the bra's humble beginnings and its development over the years into a now $2.5 billion industry. For instance, did you know that women weren't wearing bras, but instead donned the corset, until the early 1900s? (That is, if you discount the bandeaux style 'bras' worn by the Ancient Greeks and Cretans.)

Following the "S-Bend" corset's entry into the undergarment market in the late 19th century, doctors and women alike began to voice concerns about the effect of the corset on the female body. Not only did these corsets over time cause deformed rib-cages, misplaced internal organs, fainting, and miscarriages, but they were f#%*ing uncomfortable to wear all day! How were women supposed to enter the workforce and engage in physical activity and sports like tennis, bicycling, etc.? It was time for a change.


Example of the S-Bend Corset of the 1800s

EARLY 1900s

And this is where the modern bra comes in. In the early 1900s, one of the first French couturiers, Paul Poiret, declared war on the corset. His new designs first loosened and lowered it, followed by ridding his models of corsets altogether! These new dress options offered the modern woman a newly liberated silhouette and created a growing demand for an undergarment that kept breasts in place.


Poiret's hobble skirt and harem pants styles


Though the invention of the modern bra cannot be attributed to one name, there are several names that stand out in the history of the bra. Mary Phelps Jacob is one of those names. Phelps Jacob was inspired one afternoon in 1913 while trying to find the right undergarment for a somewhat sheer evening gown she would wear later that evening. Sewing two handkerchiefs together and creating two straps from pink ribbon, the first patented "brassiere" was born. The other name often connected with the bra's invention is Charles De Bevoise, an entrepreneur in the early 1900s that offered a sort of "bandeau" brassiere that compressed the breasts to fit the boyishform of the Jazz Age 'flapper'.


Mary Phelps Jacobs' first bra design

 World War I also aided the bra industry. Most corsets were made with lots of fabric, steel, and other metals, materials coveted and rationed during wartime. Women were thus told by the US War Industries Board to purchase bras and the newly marketed girdles instead of corsets at the time. This saved 28,000 tons of metal!

1920s

During the 1920s, women preferred the boyishform silhouette we discussed earlier. It was a time of great transition for women; the suffragettes' movement was under way, women demanded rights not afforded to them in the past, and they denounced the corset's inhibition of movement and freedom. Bandeau bras were worn to flatten the breasts, creating that adolescent look that was desired at the time. Thin shoulder straps also created a need for the strapless bra, widely available by 1926.


Flapper girls in their skivvies


In 1927, Maidenform, one of the largest bra manufacturers of the time, created the first cup system. Cups were initially called "double support pockets," and they were sized from A to D. This was the beginning of bra customization. Many other manufacturers followed suit, as you can see below in the Warner advertisement.

Warner Corset Company's Alphabet Bra line modelled after Maidenform


1930s

Gone were the androgynous silhouettes of the early 1900s. Curves were back! Starting with Mae West's debut on screen as one of America's first sex symbols, bigger breasts became en vogue. Following closely in Mae's footsteps was Lana Turner, the original 'Sweater Girl.' As the up-lifted, separated, perkier look of breasts was popularized, bra manufacturers began producing molded rubber padding inserts for the bra to imitate the look of the busty starlets.

Miss Mae West
Lana Turner, the first sweater girl



An advertisement from the 1930s for removable padding in bras


1940s

Just as Mae West and Lana Turner, via Hollywood, changed society's perspective on the ideal female silhouette, so too did Jane Russell in her film "The Outlaw." Jane's new figure uplifted the breasts even more, and led to the invention of the Howard Hughes' "cantilever" bra that showcased cleavage with half the coverage of bras in the past. At the same time, during America's involvement in World War II, pin-up models wearing lingerie were a popular morale booster for troops abroad. The 1940s are also responsible for the invention of the adjustable strap...thank goodness!

Jane Russell in 'The Outlaw'
Pin up model from the 1940s in YANK magazine


 1950s

This era was an important one for the bra industry. In the early 50s, pointy breasts were still popular. In fact, the "bullet" shape, created by circular stitching in the cups, was one of the best sellers at the time. This stitching technique proved too difficult to recreate at home, so most women opted for purchasing the bra in a store unlike years before. The invention of the Wrapture "Inflatable Bra" can also be attributed to this era.

Circular stitching 'bullet' bra advertisement
Women demonstrating the inflatable bra of the 1950s






Later in the 1950s, the female silhouette idealized by society was influenced by the iconic Marilyn Monroe. The look of softer, rounder, and curvier breasts influenced bra fashion. With the introduction of Lycra by DuPont, bras were made more comfortable because the fabric could stretch while maintaining its soft shape. In 1958, Frederick Mellinger, a soldier newly returned from war, created his now-famous shop, Frederick's of Hollywood and introduced the first push-up bra (much simpler than an inflatable device one might say...).

Marilyn posing in a bikini

The corset also made a comeback in this period. Featured on pin-up girls in Playboy, it was not only fetishized by men, but it became a symbol of female power instead of the restrictive garment it once represented in the past.


The original playboy bunnies

 -Ashley Davenport; Retail Assistant at the Ruff Life Lingerie & Vintage








Christmas-Mother-Identity vs. Me

Christmas is just a few days away now. Ice is covering the branches. My kitchen is full of flour, chocolate chips, and vanilla, and the dining room has become a Santa workspace for wrapping and homemade decorations. My mother gifted me a collection of 175+ nutcrackers for our holiday theme this season, which out of guilt and a dash of resentment have been scattered around the house already. Our tree is up and decorated, however because of an overly thirsty puppy, it is already dying.

All of this serves as a reminder: Christmas is not simply a festive, loving season, but also for many mothers, an exercise in attempting to be everything to everyone, usually at the same time.

Not gaining weight in order to still feel sexy. Not feeling too sexy in order to attract the gossip of family members. Finding the perfect gifts, so acquaintances feels as though I truly know them.

 Oh, and as a mother, I am given approximately three weeks to endow my son with a sense of tradition, a giving spirit and love of family. We read about Curious George and Elmo's Christmas adventures after baking cookies and peanut brittle to give to his nana and pops. I even wake up at 3 am with new ideas for the perfect stocking stuffers. I don't think I ever sent Christmas cards until I had my son, now the cards come with photos and miniature scrapbooks. I have a daunting Pintrest list of crafts I should be doing (from creating our own signature hot cocoa mix complete with handcrafted labels to saving toilet paper rolls to create Santa and reindeer ornaments).  I like to believe I generally a good mom, but around Christmas, I turn into a checklist of Martha Stewart qualities.

Then... yesterday, an odd moment forced me to rethink Christmas-mother-identity vs. me.

 I received a Christmas card from Lelo, a vibrator company. Without thinking, I set it in our Christmas card wreath, an elaborate display of holiday self-importance, like a visual list of how many people think of us. I stopped to wonder, should I keep the vibrator card in with all the other family cards? Will this one day haunt my son? No, I don't think he notices but, still... In all my efforts to be the perfect mom for the holidays, I don't want to deny that a sensual self co-exists within the warm innocence I create for my child.

When I was pregnant and ordering 'virgin' drinks, I learned to embrace the sardonic eye roll, however now, I attempt to segregate the sensual self responsible for making me a parent in the first place. I am not suggesting I engage my 4 year old in spirited discussions about the use of contraceptives, but perhaps this year my Christmas gift to myself will be to embrace this particular contradiction in the same way I embrace all the rest of them, imperfectly.

Merry Christmas from The Ruff Life! 

Friday, November 29, 2013

Local Filmmaker teams up with The Ruff Life for Tease-O-Rama tribute!



Local filmmaker, Attila Gyula Balazs, and five lovely models created this tribute to the old Tease-O-Rama films. Most lingerie provided by The Ruff Life Lingerie, including ranges by Lucy B and Lelo and lots of seamed stockings.

Sunday, November 17, 2013

How do I wear vintage 'now'?

Shopping for vintage can sometimes seem a bit daunting. Finding a piece that works with your wardrobe, wondering whether you'll really wear the pre-worn garment, and searching for styles that fit into the current trends in fashion are all issues that can arise... even when you're in love with what you've found. At the Ruff Life, we offer vintage pieces ranging from dresses with 50s silhouettes to 80s inspired business attire.

 But how do you put an outfit together that's 'in' now? If we look at the 2013-2014 autumn and winter lines of top designers like Bottega Veneta, Carven, Marc Jacobs, and Balenciaga (to name a few), we find that these couturiers are not only looking to the future for inspiration, but also returning their gaze to years gone by to reinvigorate their collections. This movement toward paying homage to the past in the fashion world is ever-increasing; some designers, like DKNY, Givenchy, and Prada, are even dusting off old patterns and silhouettes from past collections and sending them back onto the runway. 

Keeping this in mind, we can take a side-by-side look at the vintage pieces offered at the Ruff Life with the biggest trends for the current and upcoming season. From over-sized coats to pleated skirts, our vintage garments and accessories can give you the sophisticated, fashion-conscious look of major designer brands without the burden of spending hundreds or even thousands on a single item. 

1. Oversized Coats

Size matters this fall and winter! The bigger the coat, the more you'll start to resemble the runway looks seen in Paris, Milan, New York City. Pastels and bright colors are also on the rise even during the autumn and winter months. Just because it looks less than ideal outside, why should we have to look just as dreary?

Lanvin coat 
60s Swing Coat, $42; Necklace, $24


Mixing textures with fur or leather is a technique used by most designers for this season, especially with jackets and coats. You can get this Mulberry look by pairing our Pendleton jacket with a simple leather purse and heels.
                 
Mulberry textured coat with fur lining
Pendleton Fur-lined Coat, $86

2. Metallics

Remember the bright metallics from the early 2000s? Well, they're back! From silver to light blue, from dresses to winter coats, this brilliant little addition to a garment can add that wow factor you've been looking for without being too "flashy." It's a great alternative if you prefer a little shine to be-jeweled items. 

Marc Jacobs silver metallic suit 
Silver jumpsuit $15
Prada blue metallic winter coat
Ruff Life Vintage Lilli Ann metallic blue coat

3. Pleats  

Pleats are very popular, especially when it comes to skirts. Those clean lines, like the ones featured in this Jason Wu gown, add class to an already beautiful color. Our Mr. Chaus vintage dress echoes this trend while maintaining that 60s vintage feel with its elongated, knife-pleated neckline. Pair it with gold accents and a textured purse to finish off the look.

Jason Wu gown for Fall 2013
Mr. Chaus Vintage pleated dress, $26

4. Capes and Wraps 

To add a little something extra to your wardrobe, try a cape or a wrap. Either of these choices will add a little extra panache to the outfit you've got on. Here we can compare shape, not necessarily texture or design. However, our cape offers protection from the rain... something you don't see very often in this style. 

Chloe, gray cape 
Vintage rain cape at the Ruff Life 

Similar to the cape style, the wrap provides some extra coverage in the cooler months while giving you that Old Hollywood glamour. This white Celine dress below is an example of the wrap and its renewed presence in high fashion. Our blue vintage dress, with its subtle floral print and 50s silhouette, also features a matching wrap. 

Celine dress with matching wrap
Blue vintage dress with matching silk wrap
          

5. Texture 

In the fashion world, designers have been playing with the theme of texture and patterns. Fur (as we saw previously), leather, embroidery, checkered weaving... the possibilities are endless! So, what will you choose? Here are some examples of our looks that fit this description: 

Retro Bottega Veneta red wrap dress
Ruff Life woven red dress with front tie $34

To match this Tory Burch look, you can add patent leather pumps and black tights.

Tony Burch dress suit with
checkered fabric
Vintage pastel pink dress suit with
checkered weaving
                 
6. Bags and Purses: Texture and Geometry 
Following the accessories trends on the runway is interesting. For the most part, the accessories are following the same patterns as garments themselves. Texture, like the checkered weaving pictured above, is common. These bamboo purses, shown below, exemplify that mixture of texture we discussed before. The red has the checkered embroidery and the bamboo handle; it's oh-so-similar to this Bottega Veneta bag... and who is really going to know the difference, right?

Bottega Veneta woven purse 
Red Bamboo Purse $24 Red heels $18


Geometric shapes in purses is another theme you can see in the newly arrived and upcoming lines. We can compare our Ruff Life bags to one of the new Prada purses below.

Prada Black Lines Bag
Ruff Life vintage black leather purse
             
7. Neck scarves

A really fun way to spice up your wardrobe this fall and winter is the added touch of the neck scarf. With the possibility of wearing it so many different ways, it's a wonderful staple to have!

Miu Miu Neck Scarf
Leopard print silk neck scarf $6
                           
 -Ashley Davenport; Retail Assistant at the Ruff Life Lingerie & Vintage

Friday, November 15, 2013

Kegels and the 'God, I hope I don't sneeze' Problem

Aside from lingerie, we've been surprised to find one of our top-selling products is something not many women openly speak about, kegel balls.

 You may already be familiar with kegels, which strengthen the pelvic floor muscles. (See 'How to Do Kegels' below for more information on kegels.) The pelvic floor muscles can be weakened by pregnancy, childbirth, menopause, weight gain, aging and surgeries in this region. As the pelvic floor muscles weakens, orgasm become harder to achieve and, if achieved, less intense. Also, mild to moderate incontinence can occur, a.k.a 'I pee a little when I sneeze' and similar predicaments. Studies vary widely on the amount of women that will encounter this, but many suggest 30-60% of women will struggle with some urinary leakage in their life.

Okay, time for the good news: Kegels and kegel balls can prevent and/or treat these symptoms!



Most start by doing kegels and later move to kegel balls for stronger results. Kegel balls are weighted balls often connected with a silicone harness and strengthen these same muscles. When I began working out, I began by relying on exercise using my own body weight and moved to adding on extra weight as I became stronger. Similar theory with kegel balls, plus it helps to know where these muscles are and how to use them before shelling out money.

How to Do Kegels
If you haven't done kegels before, it is a fairly simple and discreet exercise. It is best to try while urinating to be sure you are tensing the correct muscles. If you tense and the flow of urine stops or slows, you have found the right muscles. Just tense these muscles anytime, and try varying speed and length of the muscle hold. For example, try holding the muscles for two seconds and then relax for two. Try holding for five and ten seconds and increasing repetitions (from 10 to 20) and sets (from 2 sets of 10 to 3 sets of 20). I would recommend doing these daily for a couple weeks before moving onto kegel balls.

 I still write 'Kegels' on my daily to-do list as a reminder, but my mind needs see to it on a list, if it is going to happen!

How to Use Kegel Balls
I would recommend beginning at home the first time, as you don't want to be stuffing them back up your vagina in the supermarket. They WILL probably slip out the first time. I inserted my Lelo Luna Beads Noir in just like a tampon and proceeded to get started on the dishes, while occasionally adjusting the beads. Begin standing up, and add in kegels to keep the balls from making their escape. I only had them in for about 15 minutes the first time, then moved to 30 the next week. I generally wear them about 3-4 times a week and can just walk around for a few hours doing errands with them in. I remove the balls in the restroom by simply pulling the cord.

Start using them for a couple minutes while do chores around the house. 

Lelo's Luna Beads come in Mini, Classic and Noir. Minis are supposedly for women under 30 who have never been pregnant, but I would recommend Classic size for anyone. If you have experienced intercourse without pain, I doubt Classic is going to be an issue. Classic also comes with 2 sets of differently weighted balls, so you can move up a size as you get more comfortable. Noir are smaller in diameter than the Classic but are have only have one set of weighted balls (same weight as Classic's heaviest).  Black is my favorite color, and honestly, that's why the Noir beads are my go-to.



Bit of warning: The weights in kegel balls are little weighted marbles that move freely inside of the balls. It is an interesting sensation. Once I could hold them in well, I jump around a bit and felt like I had a pinball machine inside my pelvis. It was not unpleasant in the slightest but also not an orgasmic sensation.

We have Luna Beads Classic and Noir in store now. If you have any questions, feel free to comment, tweet, e-mail, or swing by the shop.

XOXO,
Merry
Founder of The Ruff Life
@therufflifeokc
therufflifeokc@gmail.com


Saturday, November 2, 2013

Lingerie Photoshoot in the Plaza

 Photo by Mat Miller.
 Galaxy Robe, La Fee Verte $220  Anouk Bralette, Eberjey $42 Anouk Culotte, Eberjey $28
 Photo by Mat Miller. 
 Galaxy Robe, La Fee Verte $220  Anouk Bralette, Eberjey $42 Anouk Culotte, Eberjey $28
 Photo by Mat Miller. 
 Lady Godiva Robe, Eberjey $84 Lady Godiva Chemise, Eberjey $62 
 Photo by Mat Miller. Kitty Nip Soft Cup Bra, Lucy B. $32 Kitty Nip High Waist Panty, Lucy. B $28
 Photo by Mat Miller. Kitty Nip Soft Cup Bra, Lucy B. $32 Kitty Nip High Waist Panty, Lucy. B $28
 Photo by Mat Miller. Charlot Bra, Parfait $38 Charlot Bikini, Parfait $14
 Photo by Mat Miller. Charlot Bra, Parfait $38 Charlot Bikini, Parfait $14
 Photo by Mat Miller. LEFT: Femme Fatale Bra, Gossard $62 Femme Fatale , Gossard $25 RIGHT: Silk Maid Panty, LELO $52
 Photo by Mat Miller. TOP: Sinfully Yours Bra, Blush $42 Sinfully Yours Bikini, Blush $28 BOTTOM: Dentelle Balconnet Contour Bra, Elle Macpherson $65 Dentelle Thong, Elle Macpherson $24
 Photo by Mat Miller.
 Photo by Mat Miller. Kitty Nip Soft Cup Bra, Lucy B. $32 Kitty Nip High Waist Panty, Lucy. B $28
 Photo by Rob Bennett. FROM LEFT TO RIGHT: Lady Godiva Robe, Eberjey $84 Galaxy Robe, La Fee Verte $220 Kitty Nip Soft Cup Bra, Lucy B. $32 Kitty Nip High Waist Panty, Lucy. B $28
Behind the scenes photo by Rob Bennett. 
Kylie and photographer, Mat Miller.

 Photo by Rob Bennett. Jean romper, $18.
 Behind the scene shot by Rob Bennett. French Maid lingerie set by Lelo, Bralette $48 Panty $52 Apron $24. Seamed stockings, $12.
Photo by Rob Bennett.  Vintage beaded sweater, $18.
 Photo by Rob Bennett. 
LEFT: Femme Fatale Bra, Gossard $62 Femme Fatale , Gossard $25 RIGHT: Silk Maid Panty, LELO $52
 Photo by Rob Bennett.
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Photo by Mat Miller. 
MIDDLE: Pure Indulgence Robe, Blush $78 
BOTTOM: Gisele Pajama Set, Eberjey $88


Special thanks to Mat Miller, Rob Bennett, all our gorgeous models, Empire Slice House, 
Saints, Plaza Discount Store and the Plaza District.